fin-addict Posted April 18, 2016 Report Share Posted April 18, 2016 Again, I thank you all for your prayers, concerns and donations. stefi is still holding her own. no one know how. sleeps most of the time and on/off o2, they still can't decide what to do, nursing home or home, but they need her to leave hospice due to meeting standards. everyday it changed. they feel nursing home would be best because of my own health issues that I will not be able to handle it and injure my back more than it is already. my brain says it's the way to go, but my heart says different big time. thank you all again. sincere regards, david Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishtaco Posted April 19, 2016 Report Share Posted April 19, 2016 Hang in there and know whatever decisions you make for her, she knows you have her best interests at heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linesider 159 Posted April 19, 2016 Report Share Posted April 19, 2016 Stay strong buddy, will be praying for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Dave Posted April 19, 2016 Report Share Posted April 19, 2016 God bless you and Stefi. I pray for peace through Christ for both of you. John 14:1-3 says: “Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me. In My Father’s house are many mansions;if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also." Please message me if there are specific prayer requests or other ways I might be able to help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChasinSnook Posted April 20, 2016 Report Share Posted April 20, 2016 God bless you and Stefi. I pray for peace through Christ for both of you. John 14:1-3 says: “Let not your heart be troubled; you believe in God, believe also in Me. In My Father’s house are many mansions;if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also." Please message me if there are specific prayer requests or other ways I might be able to help. :thumbup: :thumbup: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnd Posted April 22, 2016 Report Share Posted April 22, 2016 Dave...my brain says it's the way to go, but my heart says different big time. ". My mother is having the same decision with her husband, heartbreaking. While not the same, I made this decision last year for my wife's mother. The Hospice folks helped me deal with the "guilt" I was feeling, yet as time went on, the decision for her to be somewhere she received the care we couldn't provide became clearer. Our thoughts & prayers are with you both Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fin-addict Posted April 22, 2016 Author Report Share Posted April 22, 2016 thanks for those kind words. sorry you had to go/going through it. hospice is fantastic, wish she could stay there. guilt does not begin to explain how I feel. hospice is trying to help with that a lot. went to visit one of the nursing homes yesterday, by the time I got back to the car I was a train wreck. do not know what to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
conocean Posted April 22, 2016 Report Share Posted April 22, 2016 After having to make decisions to put both my father and grandfather into hospice before they p***ed away, the only advice I can offer is do what you would want to be done for you if your wife was in your position. Best wishes in finding the answer in your heart.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fin-addict Posted May 7, 2016 Author Report Share Posted May 7, 2016 Stef still in hospice and holding her own. Came across this photo taken 45 years ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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